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Deception, fraud, to violate rules, regulations or expectations, to be unfaithful to someone, or to be dishonest. These and many other terms define and describe what is known simply as cheating. It is one of the many reasons why relationships end, or marriages struggle. It is one reason people lose faith in having a productive relationship, and it is one reason people lose trust in others. When someone is unfaithful to someone they are in a relationship with it is difficult for the other party to understand why they were unfaithful to them, especially if the relationship was going well from their perspective. However, the other person may have a different view about the relationship, thus the cheating begins. But my question is who is primarily responsible for cheating, or who cheats the most; men or women?
Many people may say men because it is often shown that a number of men are unfaithful to their wives/girlfriends, many men often leave their wives for various reasons, and that men have children outside of their marriages or monogamous relationships. On the other hand many people may say women cheat the most or that women are the reason so many men are unfaithful. Many people may say this because studies have shown that more women are unfaithful in their marriages or monogamous relationships because they are unhappy, feel unappreciated, or simply because they want to experience something different.
In my opinion I believe both men and women are responsible for cheating because both men and women cheat on their mates for various reasons, and both parties are responsible for maintaining the relationship. Oftentimes it may seem as though men cheat the most in relationships and marriages, but what people often fail to realize or don?t want to realize is that in most cases men are cheating with other women who are involved in relationships or married themselves! So I think it is safe to say that both men and women are one hundred percent responsible for infidelity in relationships. But another question I have is, why are people unfaithful to the ones they claim they love, or want to spend the rest of their natural lives with?
There are a number of reasons people cheat on their significant others, but the most popular and common reasons are: they are bored with the relationship; they are seeking revenge on their significant other; they want to confirm their own attractiveness; they want to compensate for a lack of sexual satisfaction or a lack of emotional fulfillment; they are seeking a thrill; they are unhappy with the relationship; or simply because they can. These are just a few of the common reasons people find to be unfaithful to their significant other, and while there are many more reasons people find and have to be unfaithful in a relationship my last questions to those who are cheaters are; Why would you remain in a relationship with someone you are unfaithful to? Would it not be easier to let them go and allow them and yourself to move forward and find the happiness you did not have with them?
Many people want to hold both men and women who are married or in monogamous relationships accountable for infidelity, and while they should be held responsible people have the tendency to forget about the other men and women that are involved with people who are in monogamous relationships. They should be held accountable for their involvement with infidelity, especially if they know the person(s) they are involved with have significant others.
If you find that you are unhappy with the relationship you are involved in sit down and talk to your mate about what you are feeling, and where you believe things are lacking within the relationship. Let them know that you are not being fulfilled as you thought you would be, and hope that your mate will take heed to what you are saying and start to make changes. You should also listen to see if your mate feels the same way, and take note of their feelings as well. If there is no said progress with your relationship after having a heart to heart with your mate, then be respectful enough to your mate, your relationship and yourself and let the person go and you move forward with your life and next relationship without hurting anyone by cheating. Cheating is a selfish act that no one should experience, however it is the reality of some and their relationships. Before you cheat on someone let them go and start anew. It?ll be better for you, your significant other and your next relationship. Have you ever been cheated on before? Have you ever been a cheater? What were the reasons?
Liz Lampkin is the Author of Are You a Reflection of the Man You Pray For? Follow her on Twitter @Liz_Lampkin.
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